Show relevant decline responses in the conversation

* If the user has already declined, we don't show that the other
  introducee has declined as well. The backend doesn't have that information, so
  this is compatible with the principle of showing what we know.
* If the user has already accepted or hasn't yet responded, we show the
  decline response in the private conversation with the introducer. If
  the user hasn't yet responded, we hide the accept/decline buttons
  in the introduction request message.

Messages an introducee receives in a `FINISHED` state are now being
ignored and deleted.

Closes #295